《居家男人》

17369624856

愿这个世界充满爱

翻译孙歆琰

居家男人 这电影前半部看得昏昏欲睡啊。 可能一开始，没弄懂，这么凯奇突然之间就去到另种截然不同的生活里去了。一直在想那个黑人到底存在与否，还是他从头到尾只做了一场梦，一场关于人生选择的大梦。现实生活中，女主来电应该是通知他要离开去巴黎了吧。 他在电影的居家生活，为了孩子放弃自己的金融梦想。由抗拒，无奈，慢慢适应，到接受，最好甘之若饴，甚至只想回归家庭放弃梦想。

翻译孙歆琰

一个家庭的幸福生活，当然是最重要最值得争取的。但是，两个都贵为最有前途的职业的人，难道没办法让自己过得舒缓些。何况他们在一起长达13年之久。孩子最大还不过5岁，这还有至少5年的时间能够赚一些钱的啊。
难道为了突显戏剧冲突，和他之前的生活形成明显的对比？
最后的情节，起到了点睛作用。

翻译孙歆琰

没有说到男主去到英国的心理变化和生活，却很好的通过女主之口描述了她那段因失恋而灰暗无望的时光。可能还有点长哦···
在机场的毅然决绝，真的一走了之啦。想来，肯定经过了多重磨炼才至此。
看看男主是怎么说服女主的。
除了生活条件，估计男主说的都是女主幻想和男主的生活片段，因为经历过，才会如此细致真实动人。
所以，要抓住一个人，就给他心底最渴望的东西。

翻译孙歆琰

为什么说结局点睛呢。
男女都很清醒，说好，就一杯咖啡的时间，说好，明天也可以登机，而不是狗血的拥抱热吻。
由咖啡厅的相谈甚欢的场面结束，音乐缓缓响起。
里面的大女儿非常古灵精怪，居然能够参透爸爸不是她的真爸爸。妈妈，都没发现。成年人了。所以有些东西反而看不真切。
然后她说，爸爸你回来了，躺在他身上，非常动人。
小儿子，非一般可爱，胖嘟嘟。

21舞蹈教育张柳

可能你在宽敞的办公室内享受着成功的欢愉，可能你在迈向成功的路上欢欣鼓舞，也或许最惨的是你在茫茫黑暗的绝望中品味苦涩，都请你看看这部电影。看完之后会发现，有时候“成功”并不是我们所想像中的那样，我们对于“成功”的定义往往没有追随自己的内心，而是盲从了社会的庸俗标准。

17369624856

有爱，在哪里都好

21国贸江可

有时候“成功”并不是我们所想像中的那样“成功”的定义往往没有追随自己的内心，而是盲从了社会的庸俗标准。爱很简单也很重要

兮兮

一个平静而失意的下午，任由电影感动。一个好的电影可能不在于带来多少欢笑，带来多少泪水，而在于它是多么的让人回味，并且难忘。《居家男人》推荐给拼尽了青春换取所谓成功，在摩天大厦下孤单，在地铁人海中拥挤，在泡吧喧嚣后落寞，把爱情与回忆交付拼搏的人们；可能你在宽敞的办公室内享受着成功的欢愉，可能你在迈向成功的路上欢欣鼓舞，也或许最惨的是你在茫茫黑暗的绝望中品味苦涩，都请你看看这部电影。看完之后会发现，有时候“成功”并不是我们所想像中的那样，我们对于“成功”的定义往往没有追随自己的内心，而是盲从了社会的庸俗标准。
而片中让人感到温馨而快乐的是，Jack在可能的另一种生活状态中，在Kate以及可爱的孩子Annie and Josh的陪伴下，又去追寻曾经的美好与平静。因为此时Jack明白了，真正的幸福来自内心的平静，而不是优越与炫耀，也不是金钱与地位，或许忙碌的我们应该看到，至少，获得那一下午的全身心的放松，与品尝自己拥有的。那里，应该有甜蜜的味道。
Kate在Jack找到新工作的时候，对他说过下面这感人的谈话。
Kate: When you got on that plane, I was sure it was over. I left the airport afraid I'd never see you again. And then you showed up the very next day. That was a good surprise. You know, I think about the decision you made... maybe I was being naive, but I believed that we would grow old together in this house. That we'd spend holidays here and have our grandchildren come visit us here. I had this image of us, all grey and wrinkly, and me working in the garden and you re-painting the deck. But things change. If you need this, Jack, if you really need this, I will take these kids from a life they love and I'll take myself from the only home we've ever shared together and I'll move wherever you need to go. I'll do that because I love you. I love you, and that's more important to me than our address.
I choose us.
而Jack在飞机场追上要离开去Paris的Kate时候说: We have a house in Jersey. We have two kids, Annie and Josh. Annie's not much of a violin player, but she tries real hard. She's a little precocious, but that's only because she says what's on her mind. And when she smiles... And Josh, he has your eyes. He doesn't say much, but we know he's smart. He's always got his eyes open, he's always watching us. Sometimes you can look at him and you just know he's learning something new. It's like witnessing a miracle. The house is a mess but it's ours. After 122 more payments, it's going to be ours. And you, you're a non-profit lawyer. That's right, you're completely non-profit, but that doesn't seem to bother you. And we're in love. After 13 years of marriage we're still unbelievably in love. You won't even let me touch you until I've said it. I sing to you. Not all the time, but definitely on special occasions. We've dealt with our share of surprises and made a lot of sacrifices but we've stayed together. You see, you're a better person than I am. And it made me a better person to be around you. I don't know, maybe it was just all a dream. Maybe I went to bed one lonely night in December and I imagined it all. But I swear, nothing has ever felt more real. And if you get on that plane right now, it'll disappear forever. I know we could both go on with our lives and we'd both be fine, but I've seen what we could be like together. And I choose us.
当幸福与成功需要你抉择的时候，你一定要问问你自己，你想不想说出那句：I choose us.

21法4单雨虹

我们在与别人交往的过程中体验者另一种人生，我喜欢以旁观者的视角去看别人的生活